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Embracing + Living the Standards of Fatherhood
“My father didn’t tell me how to live. He lived and let me watch him do it.” –Clarence Budington Kelland
As fathers, we all have certain values we want our kids to adopt—things like hard work, compassion, good manners, respecting boundaries, and pursuing passions. These values are the foundation of our homes.
Recently, I've been thinking about how I show these values in my daily life, especially for my daughter to see. It's one thing to talk about what's important, but the real power is in living it.
Let's look at a few examples:
Leading by Working Hard:
I've realized I can't just tell my daughter to work hard; I have to show her. Whether it's putting in extra hours at work, taking on personal projects, or facing challenges head-on, I want to demonstrate the importance of hard work through my actions.
Following Passions:
Encouraging my daughter to pursue her passions is more than words. I have to actively engage in and pursue what I love. By doing this, I not only fulfill my own dreams but also show her the value of living authentically and passionately.
Putting Family First:
Talking about the importance of family is one thing, but it's crucial that my actions back it up. Whether it's spending quality time, being there for key moments, or fostering unity, my commitment to family values needs to be evident in my daily life.
As fathers, let's resist just talking about these values. Instead, let's live them out. It's not just about responsibility; it's a chance for personal growth and to shape the next generation by leading through example. So, let's be intentional about the standards we uphold, knowing our actions speak louder than words and leave a lasting impact on our children.
To Fathering Well,
Bryant
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